Garrett has declared this Our Week of Rejuvenation. (It just took me 3 tries to spell that correctly.)
I was sort of confused as to why we needed some rejuvenation (only 2 tries this time) but apparently it is partially related to the fact that in the last 2 weeks we have hosted two weeknight Dinner Parties. And by the way, the use of Dinner Parties is incredibly hyperbolic in this instance, in my opinion, because it just means we had two couples over for dinner on two separate occasions. This type of social interaction makes me very happy. It makes Garrett happy too, as we love seeing our good friends, but it also gets filed under ‘D’ for Dinner Party in his mind and apparently exhausts him to the point of needing a Week of Rejuvenation also. I think our oppositional introvert/extrovert tendencies are highlighted the most in these types of situations.
The truth is I’m happy to oblige overall though because I have definitely been pushing myself lately and sometimes I don’t even notice. Two or Three days a week I am getting up at 4:30 in order to have time to sip some coffee and squeeze in a 3-ish mile run before I have to be at work at 7. The other days I am “sleeping in” until 5:30 as I have changed my schedule at work so I am now working 9 9-hour days every two weeks and then scoring an additional week day off. Then we are CrossFitting 3-4 nights per week, doing one long run on the weekend, and ohmygod we are also having dinner parties where I am planning and prepping the menus? Maybe I do need a week just to relax.
Today is one of my Earned Days Off from work and I’m sitting here in my PJs drinking coffee after devouring last night’s new episode of Bethenny Ever After. In these moments, I could really get used to being a kept woman, although I would need to buy a fainting couch and a house-boy and some bon-bons immediately. Who are we kidding though, while I’m blogging I’m also googling recipes for short ribs since I have 3 lbs that need to be used up pronto, because I am not comfortable when I am not multi-tasking so being a kept woman is probably not for me. Also, I don’t even really like bon-bons. If you have any short ribs recipes you want to send my way, please do would ya? We have subscribed to a monthly meat share for the past 4 months and I get short ribs pretty regularly so I’m all ears for new ways to prepare them. I thinking on trying this recipe today.
Obviously I am not the best at finding balance. It’s a constant struggle for me, and it is not lost on me that I am a Libra and that this is such an astrological cliche. But I have a lot of goals and things I want to accomplish and I am very good at pushing through discomfort. I’m hoping this serves me well when I have a baby or something, otherwise what good is it, right? TELL ME THIS WILL HELP WHEN I HAVE A BABY. The truth is this also gets me in trouble sometimes so it is definitely something to keep in check. I think Garrett’s Week of Rejuvenation is a nice reminder. He is definitely the yin to my yang, or yang to my yin — I don’t know. He completes me, but with less squinty-eyed sappiness than Renee Zellwegger. (Sidebar: Can you imagine if Renee Zellwegger and Bradley Cooper had stayed together and had babies. I think they each have The Most Annoying Faces in Hollywood, and I know that makes me a bad person, but oh my god, that kid would have come out looking like it had been hit in the face withe a bag of nickels. The tragedy. It is probably good for everyone that they have broken up.)
Anyway, I had a long conversation with my mom yesterday about my current fitness routine as she loves to worry about whether I’m overdoing it. I think “Be Careful” is her second most favorite phrase to say (after “you are my most beautiful and favorite-est daughter” of course.) I can see how from the outside it may seem like I am overdoing it, but the truth is, my goal is to get into tip-top baby making shape this year. It is THE GOAL, actually. And for me, success in that endeavor will be measured by whether I can lose this last 50-60 lbs. And it ain’t gonna happen sitting on the couch, youknowwhatimsayin’? In hindsight maybe taking on a half-marathon at the same time was not the best idea since I have NO SKILLS as a runner (yet) but it seemed efficient at the time and now I’m committed and damnit if I am going to back out on a commitment — I am quite a stubborn S.O.B.
I reassured my mom that I’m not doing this look better naked (although hey, it’s a nice side effect) or to fit into clothes better (I’ve always thought I put myself together nicely no matter what size I am) but I am doing it to prepare myself for the most exciting journey ahead. And for that, I am okay with experiencing a little discomfort in the form of 4:30 am wake up calls and sore muscles pretty much 7 days per week. But I am fully aware that this is probably not a long term lifestyle plan. I mean, I think I will CrossFit forever because HOLY SMOKES — THE KOOL-AID TASTES GREAT! But maybe I won’t try to Cross-Fit, lose 50lbs, train for a half-marathon, and learn a secondary sport all at the same time, you know? Next time I’ll know better. Next time, you all.
So anyway, rejuvenating. We are doing it. I’m not super good at it, but for me that means this week I will: sleep for at least 8-9 hours per night (hello EARLY bedtime), keep my CrossFit/Running schedule (sorry, not willing to deviate on that one), spend my evenings reading, writing, taking super hot bubble baths (recovering muscles, yowza!) and of course, spend quality time with Garrett doing things like watching Top Gear and Modern Family and even Dr. Phil because those are some of the only shows we can agree on. (Dude, Dr. Phil is FUNNY!) I have read some great books on the craft of writing this month and I’ve been feeling pretty inspired. I’ll tell you about them in my March Book Review, but for now, know that they’ve got my creative juices flowing. And for me, when I indulge my creative side I feel the most rejuvenated.
What do you do when you are looking for a little bit of rejuvenation?